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"Truth goes through three stages: first it is ridiculed; then violently opposed; finally, it’s accepted as being self-evident." Schopenhauer

"Social reformers are never, ever liked. They are always unpopular because they are always confronting a culture that doesn't want to know more about injustice for which they bear some responsibility." -Gregg Cunningham, Esq. Executive Director for The Center for Bio-Ethical Reform

His Body, His Choice


This topic is a sore point for me.  The following is blunt and to the point.  
Short version -

If it's not your penis or vulva, LEAVE IT ALONE!

Long version -

(As Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is not common or legal in the USA, I am using the terms penis and foreskin.  However, my feelings are the same regarding girls.  Yes, girls are protected federally and boys are not.  Tell me how this is logical or fair?)

The foreskin is there for a reason.  It is not "extra" skin.  It protects the glans (or head) of the penis, keeping it clean and sensitive.  When the foreskin is removed the glans is constantly rubbing on diaper/underwear and essentially becoming calloused and desensitized.  
 
Babies DO feel pain and remember it.  RIC is performed without anesthetic in virtually all cases.  Imagine one of your first experiences being excruciating pain.  Infants often pass out from this pain.  Many mistakenly think their "baby slept through the whole thing", when in fact the baby is in shock.

Another thing about babies and pain - obviously babies cannot say, "Yes, that hurts".  They can cry or whimper or withdraw, but they might also do that if they were simply startled.  We don't know if they experience pain the same way a person that can speak does.  But, why, oh why, don't we err on the side of caution and assume that they do feel pain?


A comparison of male and female anatomy and male circ and female circ

originally posted on Mothering.com by member Frankly Speaking
"...infibulation is much worse than male circumcision however, infibulation accounts for a very small percentage of female circumcisions. Of the other four types of female circumcisions, none are as bad as the typical modern male circumcision.

The problem is that you equate appearance with function and that is not legitimate. Just because the clitoris and the penis have a somewhat similar appearance does not mean they have the same function. It's like trying to say that because male and female breasts have a very similar appearance that they function the same. No one would ever try to say that.

There are three functions that are similar in the male and female sexual organs. That is pressure, tactile and stretching. Those functions are located in different parts for males and females so you have to look at the functions that are being affected to make a comparison to male and female circumcision.

The tactile sensory receptor in the female is the clitoris. In the male, it is the frenulum. In modern male circumcision, the frenulum is cut away with the foreskin and is therefore non-functional just the same as cutting away the clotoris makes it non-functional.

The stretch receptor in a female is the vaginal sphincter, In the male, it is the preputial sphincter which is always cut away.

The pressure receptor in the female is the G-spot and in the male, it is the glans. Both of these remain after both male and female circumcision. They are both able to trigger an orgasm and thus become the primary sexual organ in the male and usually the primary sexual organ in the female although many genitally altered women also retain their clitoris.

The inner mucosal foreskin and the labia also have sensory receptors for both the male and the female. Sometimes the labia is cut away in FGM. In the male, about 2/3 of the nerve endings reside in the distal 1/3 of the foreskin. In a male circumcision, 2/3 to 3/4 of the mucosal foreskin is removed so that very few of these nerve endings remain. Additionally, keritinization desensitizes those few that remain so that they have a greatly reduced function.

So, if you look at the two and compare them from a functional viewpoint, for a female circumcision to have the same sensory function effect as male circumcision, the clitoris, clitoral hood, the labia and the vaginal sphincter would all have to be removed. This totally ignores the fact that the bared glans in male circumcision suffers desensitization from keritinization so that in the end, male circumcision is more damaging than all forms of female circumcision except the most invasive type that includes infibulation. Less than 5% of female circumcisions include infibulation.

I hope that helps you understand the similarities and differences in the two."
Some reasons given for RIC are:
  • "We want him to look like his father." - How many fathers and sons do you know that compare penises?  If a boy's hair color doesn't match his father's, will you keep it dyed/bleached?  If his ears/nose/mouth/whatever is different, will you make him have cosmetic surgery?
  • "It reduces infections." - What other body parts do we cut off preventively for infection?  What other body parts do we cut off to cure infection?  Kids get lots of ear infections.  Should we amputate their ears.  Many women and girls get reccuring Urinary Tract Infections (UTI).  What parts should we cut off them?
  • "It's more hygienic." - Again, what other body parts do we cut off to keep cleaner?  If you can teach a boy to wash his hands, you can teach him to wash under his foreskin.
  • "Uncircumcised men give their partners cervical cancer." - Recent research has indicated this to be false.  And anyway, shouldn't this be a risk/benefit choice of the two parties involved?
  • "I like the look of circed over intact." - That's fine.  You may have a circumcision or choose a mate with a circumcision.  Your son may feel differently.  It is his choice to make.

Links

The Case Against Circumcision by Dr. Paul Fleiss
http://www.mothering.com/articles/new_baby/circumcision/against-circumcision.html

Protect Your Uncircumcised Son: Expert Medical Advice for Parents by Dr. Paul Fleiss
http://www.mothering.com/articles/new_baby/circumcision/protect-uncircson.html

NOHARMM: Anatomy and functions of the male foreskin:
http://www.noharmm.org/anatomy.htm

CIRP: Anatomy of the Penis, Mechanics of Intercourse:
http://www.cirp.org/pages/anat/

CIRP: The Penis and Foreskin: Preputial Anatomy and Sexual Function:
http://www.cirp.org/library/anatomy/

HOW MALE CIRCUMCISION MAY BE AFFECTING YOUR LOVE LIFE_By Dr. Christine Northrup © 2004 http://mensightmagazine.com/Article...up/lovecirc.htm

Circumcision affects Male Sexuality & Female Partner’s Pleasure
http://sexasnatureintendedit.com/

Circumcision Video
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/video.html

NOCIRC~National Organization of Circumcision Information Resource Centers
http://www.nocirc.org/

Article~Position Statement: The Effects of Circumcision on Breastfeeding
http://www.nocirc.org/statements/br...tement2002.html

NOHARMM
http://www.noharmm.org/home.htm

NORM~The National Organization of Restoring Men
http://www.norm.org/

Circumcision Information and Resource Pages
http://www.cirp.org/

Article~Circumcision and Urinary Tract Infection
http://www.cirp.org/library/disease/UTI/

Doctors Opposing Circumcision-Tons of Links!
http://faculty.washington.edu/gcd/DOC/

Mothers Against Circumcision
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/index.html

In Memory of the Sexually Mutilated Child
http://sexuallymutilatedchild.org/

INTACT
http://www.intact.ca/index.html

Intactivism
http://circumstitions.com/

ARC~Attorneys for the Rights of the Child
http://www.arclaw.org/

Articles by Vincent Bach
http://www.stopcirc.com/vincent/index.html

everything you wanted to know about circumcision but were afraid to ask
http://www.stopcirc.com/index.html

Procedure
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/methods.html
http://www.usask.ca/medicine/family...m#slide0001.htm

General info
http://www.caringforkids.cps.ca/babies/Circumcision.htm
http://www.mothering.....by/circumc...rcumcision.html
http://www.cirp.org/pages/parents/FAQ/
http://www.infocirc.org/vice.htm
http://www.noharmm.org/separated.htm
http://www.circumcision.org/information.htm

MGMvsFGM
http://www.noharmm.org/comparison.htm
http://www.circumstitions.com/FGMvsMGM.html
http://www.circumstitions.com/Develop.html
http://www.infocirc.org/pressrel.htm

Rates
http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/bollinger2001/ (American)
http://www.cirp.org/library/statistics/USA/ (American)
http://www.courtchallenge.com/refs/rate1m.html (Canadian)

Medical Communities
http://www.cirp.org/library/statements/
http://www.nocircnc.org/medicalstatements.htm
http://www.circumcision.org/studies.htm
http://www.intact.ca/saskmemo.html
http://www.nurses.cirp.org
http://faculty.washington.edu/gcd/DOC/

Circumcision Not Cost Effective
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2004/11/prweb180294.htm

UTIs
http://www.infocirc.org/uti2.htm

Risks and Complications
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/complications.html
http://www.fda.gov/cdrh/safety/circumcision.html (clamping methods)
http://www.infocirc.org/fourn.htm (plastibell)
http://www.cmaj.ca/cgi/content/full/169/3/216 (plastibell)


Breastfeeding
http://www.nocirc.org/statements/breastfeeding.php
http://www.cirp.org/library/birth/

Cancer
http://www.cirp.org/library/stateme...rs/1996-02_ACS/
http://www.cancer.or.....enile_canc....asp ?sitearea

Personal Experiences
http://www.stopcirc.com/
http://www.circumcision.org/mothers.htm
http://www.udonet.com/circumcision/chose_to_circ.html
http://www.childbirthsolutions.com/...claire/circ.php
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com/mothers.html

"Look Like Daddy"
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/Like-Son.htm

IntactvsCirced penis care
http://www.nocirc.org/publish/4pam.pdf
http://www.nocirc.org/publish/5pam.pdf
http://www.tornwing.com/peacefulbeg...bysgenitals.htm
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/

Hygiene&problems
http://www.cirp.org/library/complications/vanhowe/

Won't it Have to be Done Later?
http://www.mothering.com/articles/n...-uncircson.html

News articles
http://www.cirp.org/news/
http://www.infocirc.org/news.htm
http://www.infocirc.org/articles.htm

Pain
http://www.circumcision.org/response.htm
http://www.infocirc.org/babypain.htm
http://pediatrics.aappublications.o.../full/100/4/626

%Of Pain Control Actually Used
http://pediatrics.aappublications.o.../full/101/3/423
http://pediatrics.aappublications.o...t/full/101/6/e5

Pain Relief that SHOULD Be Used
http://www3.us.elsevierhealth.com/WOW/op043.html

Sexual side effects
http://www.boystoo.com/medical/conversion.htm
http://www.reserach/cirp.org/
http://www.norm.org/lost.html

Ethics
http://www.cirp.org/library/ethics/
http://www.canadiancrc.com/circumci...ircumcision.htm
http://www.sentienttimes.com/03/dec...cumcisionT.html

After-Market Foreskin
http://www.nbc10.com/health/1808693/detail.html

Christian Perspective
http://www.udonet.com/circumcision/christian.html

Cute articles
http://www.geocities.com/raisingintactsons/
http://www.circumstitions.com/Itsaboy.html

Adult circumcision(why not leave it up to him?)
http://www.circumcisioncenter.com/
http://www.nocircoftx.org/info/vs.html

Foreskin restoration
http://www.norm.org


Other great sites for research
http://www.cirp.org
http://www.circumcision.org
http://www.infocirc.org
http://www.circumcisionquotes.com
http://www.nocirc.org
http://www.noharm.org
http://www.intact.ca
http://www.mothering.com
http://www.fathermag.com
http://www.circumstitions.com
http://www.boystoo.com
http://www.courtchallenge.com
http://www.sicsociety.org
http://www.stopcirc.com
http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org
http://www.norm-uk.org

From Frankly Speaking -
Here's one from a Urological practice that gets the vast majority right. Only a very little bit of wrong information:
http://www.urologyweb.com/Productio...c/Posthitis.htm

Here is what I believe to be an exceptionally well written article by psychotherapist, Dr. Cat Sanders:
http://www.newtimes.org/issue/0112/cat.htm

What is normal. Includes information on phimosis, (tight foreskin) ballooning and photographs of what a normal infant and toddler foreskin looks like.:
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/

Care of the Uncircumcised Penis: Guidelines for Parents (pamphlet). American Academy of Pediatrics Includes information on forced retraction, appropriate age for retraction, normal adhesions, function, smegma, and hygiene.:
http://www.cirp.org/library/normal/aap/

Care of the intact penis as published in Childbirth Educator Today. Much the same information as above.:
http://www.cirp.org/pages/parents/peron1/

This is NOCIRC’s pamphlet. Click at the bottom left to see the second page.:
http://www.nocirc.org/publish/4pam.pdf

Information on forced retraction-I especially love this: “Parents of an intact boy often know more about the structure, functions, and development and care of the normal penis than their son’s physician.” Because it is so true! Includes legal remedies should a care provider injure your son.:
http://www.nocirc.org/publish/6pam.pdf